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Podcast: Acts 29 Vancouver
Episode: Favouright
Publishing Date: 2023-05-14T06:00:44-07:00
Podcast URL: https://acts29.ca
Episode URL: https://acts29.ca/favouright/

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a visited topic that I think should be visited every year.

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And no, it's not faith, it's favor.

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Yeah, favorite, instead of favorite.

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So some of the things we have to look at every year

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are things like faith, but this is another thing

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that we are so not used to, and so we need to

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look at it again.

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In Matthew 11, 28 or thereabouts, Jesus says,

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take my yoke upon you.

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And I often used to wonder why Jesus wears a yoke

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or why he's offering me a yoke,

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because a yoke is supposed to be a burden.

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So why would Jesus offer me a yoke?

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And so one has to ask the question,

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so what is the yoke that Jesus wears?

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What is the yoke that Jesus wears?

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Why is he saying to us, take my yoke upon you?

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Wear the yoke?

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Because Jesus doesn't wear anything

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that his father doesn't give him.

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He only wears what his father gives him.

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So what is the yoke that Jesus wears?

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And if you look at his life right from,

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you can't look at his life right from the beginning,

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because he does not have a beginning,

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but if you look at his life,

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some of the things you'll notice is that the three things

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that he's been wearing ever since the beginning of time,

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that he wore when he was on earth,

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that he still wears are affection,

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intimacy,

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trust.

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These are three things that he and the father always share.

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There's tremendous affection from the father towards him.

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He's very aware of it,

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and the father would often speak about it.

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So he, during baptism, spoke about it.

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This is my beloved son in whom I'm well pleased.

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Later on, he says it again,

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and it sounded like thunder to some people

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in John chapter 12, I think.

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And at that point he said,

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this is my beloved son, listen to him.

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And so affection then leads to intimacy,

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because the father and son have a very unique,

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intimate relationship.

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In Matthew 10, in the message it says,

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this is a unique father-son operation

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that comes out of father-son intimacies and knowledge.

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This is a unique father-son operation

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that comes out of father-son intimacies and knowledge,

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and that leads to a degree of trust

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where the father trusts the son

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and the son trusts the father,

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to the extent that even Jesus quoted David

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from the Psalms when he says,

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I know that my father will not abandon me to Sheol.

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He knew that he would rise up from the dead

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even if he died.

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These three things are what we struggle with.

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We get this right, and our lives will be highly successful

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in any condition.

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These are the three things that will always be opposed,

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that will always be stolen,

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that will always be dismantled.

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It is critical that we get this right.

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Affection.

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Affection, intimacy, trust.

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This is the yoke that Jesus wears

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from the beginning of time.

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This is the yoke that he's saying he wants us to take on.

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Take my yoke upon you.

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Take this that I wear with my father.

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He and I have a strained affection for each other.

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He and I are intimate.

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He and I trust each other.

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This is the yoke that I want you to take

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so you can walk with me just like I walk with my father.

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It is light, it is easy to bear,

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and I will teach you how.

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These are ingredients of another word called favor,

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which is what we want to examine today.

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Because the father wants,

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I need a little more volume

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because the father wants

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the same relationship.

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The father wants the same relationship with me

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that he has with Jesus.

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The father wants the same relationship he has,

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the father wants the same relationship with me

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that he has with Jesus.

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I struggle with this because I do not know

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the relationship that the father has with Jesus,

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so it doesn't necessarily make sense to me.

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I do not know the intensity of the relationship

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that the father has with Jesus.

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You catch glimpses of it when you read the gospels,

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but it's not real to me.

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So how do you then deal with this?

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One of the ways that perhaps you can deal with this

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is to think of someone you highly favor or you highly love,

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or think of someone who loved you tremendously

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and showed you great favor.

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And when you begin to think like that,

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it can become a little more real

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because favor is not a theological construct.

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Favor is not a faith thing.

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Yes, faith is involved, but favor is something tangible.

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So it makes it much easier for me

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when I think of someone that I highly favor

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or when I think of how I have been highly favored.

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And then I begin to think, if God was like that,

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that itself would be satisfying,

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but God is not like that, he's many times more.

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But if I don't have an understanding of this,

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affection, intimacy, trust is a non-starter.

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Feelings are involved in this.

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Faith is involved in this.

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Truth is involved in this.

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Thank God truth is a person.

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Jesus is involved in this.

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If you don't wrap your heart around it,

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because you cannot wrap your mind around it first,

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you have to wrap your heart around it.

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If you don't wrap your heart around it,

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you will need a lot of faith to live the Christian life.

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We are supposed to be loved before we can exert faith.

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Faith is exerted because we are loved

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and we can trust the one who loves us.

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If we are not loved, it is very hard

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to exert faith because now you have to stand on scriptures,

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not stand on a person.

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When you're loved, you stand on the person that loves you.

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When you're not loved, when you don't understand

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how much you're loved,

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then you have to stand on the words they say.

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One of the biggest shifts that Christians have to make

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is move from the promises of God to the nature of God.

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Sometimes I love it when God says to me,

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I'm not gonna give you a promise,

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I'm gonna give you my nature.

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I love that.

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Now I don't have words to stand on,

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I only have to depend on his nature.

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A promise is realized through reading and faith,

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nature is realized through relationship.

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A promise is realized through reading and faith.

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Faith comes by hearing the word of God.

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Nature is realized through relationship.

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This is what God is inviting us into.

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This is what every Christian life is supposed to be.

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This is what Adam and Eve were supposed to have

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and did have.

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Even after they lost it, they still had it.

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This is the embrace that he wants us to come into.

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And therefore, think of those that you highly favor

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and think of how your heart pours out towards them.

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Some of the words that we, and guys, remember this,

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every attempt of the enemy is to dismantle faith.

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Every attempt of the enemy is to dismantle favor,

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affection, intimacy, and trust.

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Since he knows the battle is lost

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in terms of getting you unsaved,

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why not make your life miserable and unfruitful

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by removing these four things from your life?

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Because he can't take you away from him

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whose hands you are held in.

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You are saved.

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Christ lives in you.

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Satan does not have the power to remove Christ from you.

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Or you from Christ.

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So what can he do?

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The only thing he can do is,

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can I strip you of affection, intimacy, trust, and favor

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so that your life here in Christ is miserable?

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Or is an exertion?

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So wrap your hearts around it.

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If you try to wrap your mind around it first,

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it's not possible.

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Because our minds have not experienced favor here on Earth.

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This kind of favor we haven't experienced.

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So let me define favor.

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Before I go there, every time you talk to God,

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every time you talk to God, just remember this,

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every time you talk to God,

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it will be in the context,

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it will be in the context of how you think he sees you.

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Hey, that's a really cool song.

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The blind man stood by the road and he cried.

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The blind man stood by the road and he cried.

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He cried, oh, oh, oh, oh,

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show me the way, it's too high.

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Every time you talk to God,

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it will be in the context of how you think.

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Who's leading the song in?

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Yeah, sounds really good.

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It's very distracting.

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Every time you talk to God,

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every time you talk to God,

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it will be in the context of how you think he sees you.

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How you perceive he's towards you.

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This is something you need to recognize,

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that every conversation you have with God

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is based out of the context of how you think he sees you.

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And therefore, when affection, intimacy,

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and trust and favor are not your context,

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not the matrix that you operate out of,

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it is very hard, it's very hard.

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We literally have our own wailing walls

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and our own days of atonement every day.

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But if I get it right, if I get this right,

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then the father begins to have the same relationship

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with me that he had with Jesus.

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God is dealing with you not in terms of how you should be,

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but how you presently are in Christ.

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He's not dealing with you as you should be,

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because if you don't have the right relationship

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with him, he's not dealing with you as you should be.

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Because if he did that, he would never get to have you

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till you got to heaven.

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He deals with you as you are in Christ.

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So my deficits are made up in Christ.

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So let me define the word favor in many different ways

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so that we get the hang of it.

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So how about approval?

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But doesn't it say in the Bible

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that you should study to be approved?

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Yes, it does.

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Doesn't it say in the Bible that obedience

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is met with approval from God?

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Yes.

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Doesn't it say that if you overcome, God approves you?

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Yes.

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All that is true.

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Approval operates at different levels,

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but the bottom level of all approval is you are approved

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because you are in Christ.

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That's where it starts.

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Everything else is built on top of that.

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What we do as Christians is we are so not used

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to being approved without doing anything

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that we begin to measure our approval

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based on what we have done.

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None of us are used to being approved

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without doing anything.

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It's in the very nature of parenting

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to not approve your child unless the child measures up.

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It is sad, but that's how we parent our children.

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If some of you young dads and moms who presently have kids

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that are less than a month or two months old,

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if you could begin to help that child understand approval

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before the child has done anything,

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you already give that child an advantage

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that very few of us have had.

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Words that explain approval.

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High esteem.

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This is why I said, if you have shown someone favor like this,

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you will understand this.

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If you have received favor like this,

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you will understand this.

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And if you haven't, then we must begin to do this

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so that someone else can experience it.

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And you can be made richer by it.

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One of the things we Christians should do

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is behave like God,

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even if we haven't received this kind of behavior.

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So maybe you've never received this kind of favor.

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Maybe you haven't gotten it from parents,

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from pastors, from anybody.

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You've not received this.

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Well then, time for you to start doing it

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because someone will receive it

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and you will know what it is to give it

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and someone else will know what it is to receive it.

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If you haven't got favor,

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they click on immediately because their heart wraps around it.

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But how can I give this if I haven't received it?

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You've got God in you, you can start.

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Approval, high esteem.

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Delight.

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Love that makes you laugh.

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Guys, even these first five or six,

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do you realize how alien it is to our experience?

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This is the poverty of humankind.

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That this is not a common experience.

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Maybe we can't do it for 20 people, 30 people,

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how about two people, three people?

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I can't think of God constantly stamping me with approval.

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I can't see God highly esteeming me

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when sometimes I don't esteem myself highly.

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I can't see God absolutely delighted with me

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because there are things that are not delightful about me

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and I can't see God who loves laughing over me.

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These things are so alien.

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I'm praying God that as I speak,

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the Holy Spirit will start doing something

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in my heart and yours because I can't do this for you.

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No words will make this happen.

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I can try and present a picture

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but he can take the picture and emboss it.

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And if you're not a feeling person,

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then it is not the way God made you.

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It is the way you have become

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because of your environment, background, situations

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and God can change that too.

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Some of the most amazing miracles

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are the change of personality

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that sometimes happens overnight.

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Overnight.

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When fear goes, it's a miracle.

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Overnight.

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When personality changes happen, overnight.

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What does he want from you?

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A little bit of cooperation.

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What does that look like?

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A little bit of water that you allow

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onto the hard clay of your life.

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That's all.

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That's all it takes.

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Love that makes you laugh

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or makes the person who is showing you a favor laugh.

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Targeted kindness.

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Targeted kindness.

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As in, this is kindness that is especially towards you,

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that you understand.

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Access.

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Favor gives you access.

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As in, if I favor someone, they have access.

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Whenever you favor someone,

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you give them access to life, to things in your life.

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You give them favor.

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I don't know your bank pin code.

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I mean, Dawn to 7777.

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But besides that, most of us, we don't know.

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Have you changed it since you got married?

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It must be the first four.

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Okay.

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Okay.

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Yeah.

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Usually once you get married,

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it's the first four digits of your wife's birthday.

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So once you figure out Kezia's birthday,

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you have all their money.

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Yeah.

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Access.

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I love this word.

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Intentional bias.

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Intentional bias.

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God, favor is intentional bias.

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Favor is intentional bias.

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Doesn't compute, huh?

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That God is intentionally biased towards me.

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It's extra benefits.

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Extra benefits.

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If you're favored, you will get extra benefits.

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If you're favored,

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your debts and deficits will be settled.

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If you're favored, you have tailored goodness,

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which is the same as targeted kindness.

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Tailored goodness.

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Tailored goodness.

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Because of God's furious love,

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because of God's furious love for me,

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because of God's furious love for me,

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favor is,

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and favor is an I am pleased with you.

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Or you are special to me position.

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In Christ.

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If the only thing you did this week was go over this

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again and again and again,

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perhaps your life could change for the next little while.

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Any questions?

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It'll be impossible to escape favor

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when you think like this, eh?

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It'll be impossible to escape favor.

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It'll be impossible to escape favor

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when you think like this.

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You'll anticipate favor in situations.

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You'll expect favor in situations.

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It's not a matter of favoring or not.

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It's a matter of favoring.

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It's a matter of favoring.

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It's very, very hard to think like this.

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It's not a negative confession.

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I'm just telling you the truth.

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The ground has become so hard after 30, 40, 50 years

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of not being most favored in any relationship.

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It becomes very hard.

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It is our responsibility to act like this

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towards those around us.

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Pick two or three or four or five.

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It's our responsibility.

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Pick your spouse, pick your children,

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and then pick two or three more.

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They must know what this is like.

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If they know, then it is so easy for them

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to connect with the father.

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Do people a favor.

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Help them connect with the father faster.

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Approval.

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Highly esteemed.

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Delight.

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Today I was going over people that have favored me.

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Over the last few days I've been going over this.

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People that favored me and how they showed me favor

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and people that I favor and how I show them favor.

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I'm trying to put God in the picture.

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I seem to be able to give favor and receive favor

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much easier from people than from God

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because that is not the God that I always think of.

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I struggle with this.

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I would suggest that you struggle with it too.

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What if I approved you always?

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What if I thought of you with high esteem?

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What if I delighted in you?

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What if just watching you makes me laugh out of love?

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What if I could target you with my kindness?

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What if I could be a good friend?

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What if I could be a good friend?

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What if I could target you with my kindness?

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What if I gave you access?

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What if I had an intentional bias towards you?

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What if you were always the recipient of extra benefits?

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What if your debts and deficits

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were my pleasure to wipe out?

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What if I tailored goodness towards you?

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What would your life be like?

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What if you did that for me?

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Then every time I'm in your vicinity

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there's an expectation of favor.

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Every time I'm anywhere near you

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or even if I know that your influence spreads

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and you're nowhere near me,

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I will still anticipate this.

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This becomes my life.

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This becomes my life and things are tough.

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This becomes my life and things are easy.

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This is what I expect.

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What is the opposite of it?

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Self-hatred, anxiety, self-condemnation, fear.

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And despite these two extremes,

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an honest question to all of us, including me,

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how many of us will actually spend time

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to make this happen for ourselves?

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How many of us will try to figure this out with our minds

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and will fail by tomorrow and abandon it?

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How many of us will live under our privilege

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in a world of instant gratification?

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We find it very hard to spend time figuring this out.

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And so what do we dilute it down to?

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If God answers my prayer, I'm favored.

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If God doesn't answer my prayer, I'm not favored.

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We become like spoiled children.

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That is a measure we use for favor.

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Spoiled children do that.

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That he didn't give me, he doesn't love me.

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Really?

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That means he does.

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Yeah.

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Any questions?

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Yeah, we can show this to non-believers too.

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Because this is a God who sends rain

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on both the good and the evil.

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Any questions guys?

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When you don't know how God thinks of you,

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when you don't know how God thinks of you,

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you are 들어�, uniform, siafe,

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and you don't share desires with God.

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Only when you know God will find peace for you.

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All the people who are hearing talented people

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You're a product of your past, you're a product of your past, you are a product of your past, present or future.

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Or the perception of others.

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When you don't know how God thinks of you, then you're either a product of your past, as in what happened yesterday, your present, as in what may be happening today, or your future, as in what may be happening tomorrow.

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So there might be some days that you think well of yourself and some days when you think really lousy of yourself.

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Because it's based on your struggle. Your struggle becomes your identity. Never let the struggle become your identity, because it wants to do that.

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Your struggle becomes your identity. And then everything I do when I pray, when I exert faith, everything comes out of the identity that I have now taken on, which is my past, present or my future.

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Because I do not know how God thinks of me. Because this is so hard to wrap my head around.

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But this is how he thinks of me in Christ. And this is not cheap grace. This is not some kind of cheap grace message.

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No, I'm just telling you how the Father thinks of the Son, and because I'm in the Son, how the Father thinks of me.

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This is the kind of favor that has showered on me, but it's like wearing a raincoat and never getting wet.

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Any questions?

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This is why we need to visit favor and faith and things like this every year, man, or maybe twice a year, because it's very hard to remember.

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Any questions?

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What are some of the ways you can move from not living this to living it? What are some of the strategies?

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I think one of the biggest ones is to go over it again and again and again, until you at least begin to get some hang of it.

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Or receive it from ones that are showing you favor, or give it to someone so that you have some context to place it in.

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If I show someone favor, at least I know what it tastes like. If I have been a recipient, and either am or no longer a recipient,

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at least I can go and remember the favor I used to have and think, wow, that is what it feels like.

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And then try to bring God into it, because really when people say to you, God loves you as much as he loves Jesus,

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sometimes it's hard to compute because you really don't know how much God loves Jesus.

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And then the next one is, he loved Jesus and he sent him to the cross, so maybe he'll send me to the cross even though he loves me.

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That doesn't help at all.

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I don't think he sent him to the cross, I think Jesus took him to the cross.

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Yeah, but my mind kicks in other ways.

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Very hard, man.

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We behave like that because we are like God, but they will not be able to receive it like we receive it.

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Yeah.

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Yeah, yeah, just like forgiveness is present, but an unbeliever cannot wrap their head around it.

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Because remember guys, we are actually two different spirits.

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It is in us and them. The difference is that we all have distorted lives and someone restored our lives.

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We have a different spirit and therefore this is the only way you can behave.

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But just as a note, they do recognize it.

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I didn't hear your question a total time, but I have a sister who's cut herself off from us with him, but she sees something in me that she doesn't see in others.

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Others, yeah.

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So they do recognize it.

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Go ahead, Vivian.

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Sorry?

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Okay, where does favor come to play when you're under spiritual attack or are bound?

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That's your question?

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Yeah.

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If I favored you and I saw you under spiritual, under physical attack, if I favored you and I saw people ganging upon you,

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if I favored you and I saw you being surrounded and intense towards you are harmful,

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then if I favored you, something would rise up in me and that's the word I use.

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Furious love would rise up in me to protect you.

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So most of the time we don't even recognize furious love.

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We just say Jesus loves us.

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It is a furious love.

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It is the love that spouses have for each other even though they've had two months of fighting every day.

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You go try to harm to one of those spouses and something in the man leaps up and says,

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she may have bashed my head in 30 times this month, but my God, if you touch her, I'll bash your skull in.

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I know it sounds violent, but it's just to show you the intent is not that you bash people's heads in.

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The intent is furious love.

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Furious love is the kind of love that rises up and will do anything to protect its own.

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Do anything to protect its own.

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But because I don't think God is like that, I think of God taking his own sweet time to set me free.

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I think of God coming up with different loopholes that I have to jump through before he will set me free.

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I think of God bringing out a list that he typed up on a computer saying this, this, this, and this is wrong.

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Get this fixed, this fixed, this fixed, and I'll help you.

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It may well be that he has to go through that list, but I must operate from this place of I am favored with furious love,

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and therefore there's an intentional bias towards me.

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There's tailor-made kindness and goodness towards me.

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That is the confidence that one should operate from, and that is the confidence we do not have.

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And pastors are part of the problem because this is not what is presented.

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Yeah.

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Yeah.

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Yeah, so there is favor that keeps, eh?

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Favor keeps. Otherwise we'd be completely wiped out by now.

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Just take the seed we have sown. If those crops actually grew, our lives would be destroyed.

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So there is a keeping power of God.

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But wrap your heart around this.

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Favor gives you access. Favor gives you access.

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Favor gives you access. Whenever you're favored, you have access.

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Whenever you're favored, you have access.

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Favor is access to the ultimate place of relationship.

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Favor is access to the ultimate place of relationship.

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Favor is access to the ultimate place of relationship.

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What do you mean by that?

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Jesus favored John.

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It doesn't mean that he did not rebuke John.

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It doesn't mean that he didn't make life tough for John.

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Usually those you favor are the ones that probably have to really go through the wringer.

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But Jesus favored John, perhaps because John was the youngest among the disciples.

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He might have been 15 or 16.

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And he lived the longest. You find him on the island of Patmos years later.

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He's the same guy who brings his mother to a fight.

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So he's a young kid, 15 or 16 years old.

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And so Jesus favored John.

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And in John, I don't remember the scripture,

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John himself used to say, Jesus is beloved disciple.

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I mean, what audacity.

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John had the same problem that Joseph had.

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I'm my father's favorite.

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I'm my father's favorite.

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And John does that where he, in his gospels, he writes in John,

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he writes, and Jesus, he's writing the book and he's saying,

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and then Jesus turned to his favorite disciple, his beloved disciple.

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Peter, when he read it the first time, must have thought, my God, this guy.

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And so in John 13, 23, you see how the favor is playing out.

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If you read John 13, 23 from the message, it really captures the essence of it.

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John 13, verse 23.

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It says there,

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one of the disciples, the one Jesus loved dearly,

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that's John writing, one of the disciples, the one Jesus loved,

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I really like John.

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Yeah, there's something there.

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One of the disciples, the one Jesus loved dearly,

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was reclining against him, his head on his shoulder.

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Beautiful, eh?

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Favor gives access.

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Favor is access to the ultimate place of relationship,

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and it inevitably leads to intimacy.

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You cannot enter intimacy.

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Hear me.

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You cannot enter intimacy if you do not understand favor.

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You cannot enter intimacy if you do not understand favor.

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Not possible.

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You can see why children are robbed of it.

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Do not let your children earn their way.

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Do not give them medals or take them to the white spot

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just because they ran in a race and came last.

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But do not approve them because they did something.

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They must be so confident of this.

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We are the products.

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I look around and I see our lives,

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starting with mine and looking at yours,

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one of the reasons we struggle, one of the reasons we've had to use

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so much faith and to break habits to come through

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is because our parents didn't know any better, man.

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Our teachers didn't know better.

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Our pastors didn't know better.

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That's why that child can keep crying and Aaron won't even move a muscle.

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Favor is access to the ultimate place of relationship,

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and it always is an open door.

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Open door to intimacy.

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Any questions, guys?

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Okay, favor is the fullness of permission.

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Favor is the fullness of permission.

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I don't want to make these sound profound.

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I want to simplify it.

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Favor is the fullness of permission.

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As in, you can go anywhere in Christ.

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You can go anywhere in Christ.

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So let's assume my favor, Tooni,

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and so now I'll give Tooni the keys to my apartment.

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I'll give him the buzzer so he doesn't have to buzz.

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Oh, this is so funny.

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I told Evan, meet me at 11.15.

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On Friday, I texted him saying, meet me at 11.15.

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Need to talk about Victoria.

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And I'm in my PJs and I'm about to go to bed,

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and suddenly someone's opening my door.

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I'm thinking to myself, who's coming to my whole door?

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I mean, I've taken off my wig and my dentures,

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and I'm just sitting watching TV.

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And I'm thinking to myself, who just walked in?

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And I panicked in there.

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It was Evan, 11.15 at night.

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What do you do with people like this?

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Thank God I didn't say one, eh?

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Because if you'd have come at one,

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that would have really freaked me out.

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So...

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So...

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Pardon?

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The wig and the denture?

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Yeah, that too.

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Okay.

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So...

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So let's assume I favor Tunis.

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So now I give him my keys, I give him my buzzer.

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He has access.

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He has access.

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It's an open door now.

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And so he now has permission to go and get anything anywhere.

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This is how it works.

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Favor allows you to do this.

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But till you get into that space where you understand this is how God is,

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it's not possible.

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You would not dare.

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You would not dare.

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Most of the things that we ask for in faith is basically for the things of life.

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We do not dare step into greater things.

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Because to even ask that would be unworthy.

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Favor is the fullness of permission.

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That's why you see guys like Joshua, guys like Moses, guys like Abraham,

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asking for things that no human should ask for.

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They didn't need faith for it.

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They first had favor.

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Out of their favor they ask.

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It is out of favor that you ask for the son to stand still.

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It is out of favor that you bargain with God and reduce Sodom down to five.

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It is out of favor that these things happen.

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It is out of favor that Moses is lying before God,

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knowing that I have enough favor to stop Israel from being destroyed.

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It is not faith.

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When you have these things, why do you need faith, man?

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When you have these things, faith is so easy.

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If you know you're approved, if you know you are highly esteemed,

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if you know he delights in you, if you know that he laughs out of his love for you,

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if you know that he targets you with kindness, if you know that you have access,

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if you know you have intentional bias towards you,

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if you know you have extra benefits, that your debts and deficits will be settled,

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if you know that there's tailored goodness towards you,

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first, you wouldn't care about the things of life.

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Two, knowing all that, you would be able to ask for the moon.

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When you ask for the moon, it's not for yourself.

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None of the guys who exerted great faith ever did it for their own sakes.

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None of the guys in Hebrews 11 who exerted great faith ever did it for their own sakes.

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But they knew they had favor, this kind of favor.

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Why is it that I can't wrap my heart around it?

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I think it's because we don't understand what holiness is.

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Perhaps.

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Got to wrap our hearts around it, man.

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Favor is the confidence I have.

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Favor is the confidence I have.

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That deficits or flaws will be filled by Christ

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and will not be reason to fall out of favor.

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God of the gaps.

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God of the gaps.

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God of the gaps.

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If you are supposed to bridge the gap, if you're supposed to fill the gap,

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fill it with favor.

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God of the gaps.

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This is not a humpty dumpty wall that you fall off.

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You can't be a little bit of a coward.

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Favor is being condemned to generosity.

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Favor is being condemned to generosity.

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Favor is to be condemned to generosity.

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Favors being condemned to generosity.

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What if every time you meet someone, you condemn them to generosity?

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What if you go anywhere near them,

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and they're thinking of, how can I be generous? How can I be extravagant? How can I be lavish?

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How can I embarrass this person with more?

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Let me say that again. Favor is to be condemned to generosity.

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What if you're around a person who's looking for ways to be extravagant,

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who's looking for a way to embarrass you with more, who's looking for how to be generous?

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How can I do something else that will make this person blessed?

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That is being condemned to generosity. This is your God.

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Where are our eyes going as we speak about this?

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To our circumstances. It's okay. Let your eyes go to your circumstances.

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But at least know this before your eyes go to your circumstances.

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Let your heart know what your eyes can't see. Let your eyes see after your heart knows.

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Let your eyes see after your heart knows. If your eyes see before your heart knows,

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then your heart will also see what your eyes see.

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I can't allow that. Let your eyes see what your heart...

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Know in your heart this before your eyes see. Otherwise your circumstances will become your identity.

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Your circumstances will become how you think God sees you.

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Everything is measured by our circumstances. Everything is measured by your circumstances.

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The one thing that having Jesus in your heart changes that. They had a physical Jesus in their boat,

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and their circumstances took over. They had Him in flesh and blood.

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They had seen His power, and there was nothing that He could do in their lives in the middle of circumstances.

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Because in their heart they did not know.

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Repent, eh? We need to repent. Repent is to change our minds.

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So let's just pray a prayer of repentance right now. Father, we repent of our hard hearts

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and our stiff-necked minds.

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We repent. We repent, O God. Repenting is metamorphosis,

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which is a changing of the mind. Metanoia, sorry, Father.

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A changing of the mind.

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So Jesus, we repent. I repent of my hard heart that has an ability to resist

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a highly favoring God.

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It doesn't matter how many times you say it, I always come up with a reason not to walk in it

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or fall out of it. And I repent in my mind, my stiff-necked mind

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that just switches to senses and my thinking and my feeling and my sight

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and I just shut you out. I repent of it. Jesus, corporately we repent of it.

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We want to come into this matrix called favor, out of which we can operate, out of which

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in which we swim, in which we drown, and then see circumstances after that,

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knowing something in our hearts.

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In Jesus' name.

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Please try this throughout the week. Please go over and over it.

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Because all of us are going through difficult circumstances in our lives.

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Some of us are sleep deprived. Some of us are money deprived. Some of us are peace deprived.

00:48:04.300 --> 00:48:09.300
And it's not one day or two days. Some of us have been going through it for a while.

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I must be buried in this.

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Favor is being condemned to generosity, condemned to

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preferential treatment.

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It is undeserving,

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so what? And it is heart-stirring.

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I spent most of my mornings going over this

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for the last little while. Affection, intimacy, trust, favor.

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Just sit on my armchair and think of this, think of different situations

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where I have received and I have given favor, and then move into receiving it

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and giving it from God. And then when I get into that sweet spot,

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after that, everything else is easy peasy.

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If you look at Isaiah 61,

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which talks about the year of favor, or in other words,

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Jubilee. It talks about, he has

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come to announce a year of favor. What does a year of favor entail?

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Look at what it entails. Provision is supplied.

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Security is restored.

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If you read Isaiah 61, 5 to 11, security is restored.

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Double honor is bestowed.

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Promises fulfilled.

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Debt reversed.

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Debt reversed.

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Clothed.

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Fruitful.

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Generations blessed. This is what favor looks like

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in Isaiah 61.

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Don't look for money, look for favor.

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After you stand in favor,

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then it's different. We look for money first,

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and then we measure favor by the money we receive.

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And if it comes fast, we are highly favored. If it doesn't come fast, then we go to faith.

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It's not very good.

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It's the same with healing. It's the same with everything. We don't stand in favor.

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For some reason, I'm scared to abandon myself to thinking like this.

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Someone asked, so how do we go about it?

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What are some of the things we can do? One of the things you can do is, guys,

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we said focus on it.

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Focus on it. Then the next one is

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indulging God-directed self-talk, which is the definition of meditation.

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God-directed self-talk.

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That is what meditation is.

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God-directed self-talk. As in, this is what God says.

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These are the things I have learned. I will now engage in something called God-directed self-talk.

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Words, voice, talk,

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God-directed, indulge in it.

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God-directed self-talk.

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Father, though things are difficult today, as I look at the rest of the day,

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I just come and sit and imagine what it is to be highly favored by you.

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You actually fully approve me and right now you delight in me.

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Father, you have an intentional bias towards me.

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I'm special to you

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and I please you. You know my name. You trust me.

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I know how I show favor towards others and have affection for others.

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If that is the intensity with which I can show affection towards them,

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I kind of know the intensity of the affection towards me. If I didn't multiply it at all,

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I just took it as that. Father, I want to sink into this

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where I know that I have your favor,

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that you are for me, you're not against me, that you already know the answers to my problem.

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I don't know where these things are going to come from, but I suddenly think of Peter

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and there was nothing. That's how I feel right now. But my God, those boats began to sink

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in that movie, Chosen, because there was an overabundance. When have you not been like that?

00:53:47.300 --> 00:53:52.300
When have you been miserly? When have you been stingy? When have you not provided?

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When have you? Has there ever been a time? All my days you have been faithful. All my days you have been so, so good.

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With every breath that I am able,

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I will speak, sing, voice the goodness of God as I'm doing now.

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As I begin to do this, something begins to stir in my heart. Suddenly, instead of praying from a distance,

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I have my head on a shoulder. I begin to think to myself, what in the world

00:54:17.300 --> 00:54:22.300
were you so upset about? Why were you so troubled? Why are you so

00:54:22.300 --> 00:54:27.300
distressed? Put your hope in God, for I will yet

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praise him, my Savior and my God.

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This is God-directed self-talk.

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Scripture is weaving, your thoughts are weaving, your feelings are weaving, your heart wraps around things, your mind begins to

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change. Why? Because as you speak these words, the Spirit of God takes what is alive and

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begins to make your mind the student. He becomes the teacher. And as your mind changes, your heart is

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wrapped around God. What is left? Your body will get up and say, bring it on.

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Because this God is my God.

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This is not positive confession. This is the truth.

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God-directed

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self-talk. Third one is very similar.

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Speak the favor you have

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back to God.

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Speak the favor you have back to God in agreement.

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Because it propels you forward.

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I agree with you, God.

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I agree with you, God. This is how you see me. What I indulged was in God-directed

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self-talk. Now, can you stay out of it, Father, because I want to talk to you.

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It's your turn to listen. You don't need to direct me.

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Because now my heart is going to sing. Because I am convinced. So listen to me now, Father.

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I agree with you. I am so approved. I am

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highly esteemed. I can't believe that. But I am highly esteemed. I am someone you have an

00:56:12.300 --> 00:56:17.300
intentional bias towards. And I feel like laughing to think that I have, you have an

00:56:17.300 --> 00:56:22.300
intentional bias towards me. That you absolutely delight in me. I am very sure of this.

00:56:22.300 --> 00:56:27.300
That you are pleased with me. I am special to you. I heard that

00:56:27.300 --> 00:56:32.300
said by a guy 20 years ago and it still stands true. That you know my name.

00:56:32.300 --> 00:56:37.300
What do you really call me? And now you are having a conversation back to him. You are agreeing with him

00:56:37.300 --> 00:56:42.300
and throwing at him the very words that he spoke. Only you are throwing it as kisses.

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Back at him.

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Don't you love it when somebody you favor acknowledges it? Or do you say, oh please,

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no, no. It wasn't really favor. You love it when someone acknowledges favor.

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Where did we go wrong, guys?

00:57:07.300 --> 00:57:12.300
Why is it that after a child turns one and a half,

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this disappears? Till one and a half, that child can poo on your head and you are happy.

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And then suddenly it stops.

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You are not going to give me an explanation.

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Sorry, go ahead.

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Yeah.

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So when we say generosity, in my notes I put generosity

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and in brackets I put dollar signs and cut it. Meaning we think of generosity

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as money. Do not think of generosity as money. So when we think of faith

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as favor as generosity, think of someone you really like.

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How your heart attitude towards them is generous.

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It could be as simple as they like eggs, so in their curry I am going to add

00:58:07.300 --> 00:58:12.300
an extra egg. They don't like walking, so instead of dropping them off

00:58:12.300 --> 00:58:17.300
at the intersection, I will drop them right at home.

00:58:17.300 --> 00:58:22.300
They like brown leather shoes,

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so let's get them brown leather shoes. You are constantly thinking of them.

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You go to a bakery and you see a muffin and it's a blueberry muffin and you think to yourself,

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I already have six muffins, but because of my generous favoring heart, I will buy an extra blueberry muffin for them.

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You are constantly thinking of this person

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with brown shoes who likes blueberry muffins

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and who does not like walking and likes eggs in anything.

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And this is how it is.

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And the person knows, the person knows and it begins to

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expect it. Begins to expect it. One of the coolest ways you know that someone

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has begun to walk in favor is when the person expects favor.

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That is when you realize, see there is a difference between self entitlement and expectation.

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Self entitlement is when an expectation is not met and now your entire

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life is dismantled or ruined by it. That's self entitlement because you now think

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it is your right and if it is not given, then something is wrong. No, this is expectation

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of generosity. There is a very fine line,

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very fine line. This is what

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favor-filled generosity looks like.

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We actually practice this with the ones we love.

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And if we don't, we should.

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If we don't, we should.

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Open our hearts to receive from the favor of God.

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I'll wrap up.

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See you Victoria guys.

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Guys,

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initially favor will have to be

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extracted. We'll end with that.

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Favor needs to be extracted because

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we don't know it yet. So we'll have to go and

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extract it as in fight for it as in we'll have to

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learn how to pull it because we don't know how to

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walk in it.

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So,

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so let's assume you've shown me favor in some

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area, okay? So let's assume that

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I know that you favor me, but I've fallen out of it because

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either I haven't walked in it for a while or

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haven't kept in touch with you and I've fallen out of favor. Now to get back

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into it, I have to remember. I have to dare to take

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advantage of the favor that you have for me because your favor towards me

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never changes. It is my coldness that makes me think that I do not have it

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anymore, that I have to work my way back. Yeah. So with God,

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sometimes we have to fight to extract it again. His heart hasn't changed,

01:02:08.300 --> 01:02:13.300
but mine has gotten cold. And so then I have to

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extract it. I have to fight. I have to literally be shameless and

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say, give me what is mine.

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And that's when we go into

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stuff like I am a worm. Prodigal son, that's exactly

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what is happening. He lost favor because he literally stole his inheritance,

01:02:38.300 --> 01:02:43.300
wanted his father dead and walked away.

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Because in asking for his inheritance, he's saying that's usually given when

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a father dies, but he's asking for it much ahead of time. So his father doesn't

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matter, the inheritance matters. Give it to me. I can't wait till you die. Takes it, squanders it, comes back.

01:02:58.300 --> 01:03:03.300
What he doesn't know, he has never lost favor with his father.

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But what is he coming back as? He's coming back as a servant.

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That's our approach to favor. Our approach is that of servants.

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So we come and we say, I'm only a servant, would you please grant me this?

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That's not the posture. There is a posture of servitude before

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God in different areas. There's a posture of worshipper. There's a posture of majesty and subject.

01:03:28.300 --> 01:03:33.300
There's also a posture of father and son in favor. And we have to know

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postures because otherwise we can just mess the whole thing up.

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There's a posture of faith.

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Yeah, yeah, yeah, totally.

01:03:48.300 --> 01:03:53.300
And so the son thought he was self-entitled to the inheritance,

01:03:53.300 --> 01:03:58.300
so he took it before time. That self-entitlement where he should not have been like that.

01:03:58.300 --> 01:04:03.300
But when I approach God with favor, I'm not going there as a servant.

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When I sit in the morning and talk to him about favor, I'm not talking to him as a servant because a servant does not have favor.

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Sons have favor.

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Servants give obedience.

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Yeah, yeah, yeah.

01:04:23.300 --> 01:04:28.300
Yeah.

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If you were convinced of how much I favor you,

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you would not look or measure what is happening to you

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or what is happening in your relationship with me based on whether something works out or not.

01:04:43.300 --> 01:04:48.300
It would not come in between.

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If you know that I highly favor you, then you also know

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that there is nothing that Jacob will do within his influence or his power

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that will not be to my advantage or benefit.

01:05:03.300 --> 01:05:08.300
It would not even occur to you.

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Every time there's a disappointment, you would run to the one place where you know you are safe, and that is the place of favor.

01:05:13.300 --> 01:05:18.300
There has to be an ax that is brought

01:05:18.300 --> 01:05:23.300
to the connection between answered prayer and favor.

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They are not connected. It's the product of one.

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But favor is the real thing.

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I know that if I favor someone, there's nothing I will do.

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I will work hard at it. I will write to people. I will email.

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I will call them. I will not abandon them. I will stand with them.

01:05:48.300 --> 01:05:53.300
I will make sure that what is mine has to be theirs also.

01:05:53.300 --> 01:05:58.300
If it does not work out, it doesn't mean my favor ends.

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I won't shrug my shoulder and say, well, too bad, Emmanuel. It didn't work out.

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No. Now the next thing will be, alright, now that it hasn't worked out, what do I have to do?

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That is a finite Jacob. How much more?

01:06:13.300 --> 01:06:18.300
An infinite, highly influential, loving, powerful, whatever I will shall happen, God.

01:06:18.300 --> 01:06:23.300
And therefore, this idea of favor is so important because

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our idea of favor is based solely on circumstances. Your question is so valid

01:06:28.300 --> 01:06:33.300
because that's how we think. So valid.

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Yeah. If you know that you are highly favored, Betty,

01:06:45.300 --> 01:06:50.300
and you have asked me something, you're not going to harass me about the answer

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because you know you're highly favored. That is always going to be something that Jacob will make happen.

01:06:55.300 --> 01:07:00.300
So the answer is something that you now will follow after you

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because you dwell in favor. The answer is something that follows you.

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It's not something you're running after. The answer is not something you're running after.

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This is the hard part of Christianity. This is the hard part of charismatic Christianity.

01:07:15.300 --> 01:07:20.300
This is the hard part of faith-based Christianity. Faith-based Christianity makes the answer

01:07:20.300 --> 01:07:25.300
or the outcome the main thing. Favor is the nature of God.

01:07:25.300 --> 01:07:30.300
Answers are outcomes of promises. Both are important.

01:07:30.300 --> 01:07:35.300
One is more important.

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Promises must come to pass. Therefore, if God promises something, there is an outcome to it.

01:07:40.300 --> 01:07:45.300
So I'm not dissing that. Faith is rewarded. Faith must have expectation and hope.

01:07:45.300 --> 01:07:50.300
So you must expect an answer. Please don't think you shouldn't expect an answer.

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But it should not be trumping favor.

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It is a relationship that I dwell in. The answer is then something that happens.

01:08:05.300 --> 01:08:10.300
I just wanted to share a quick question.

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Daniel had this week. There were seven monogamous where he tried to meet the church.

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He didn't even do that anymore.

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He was still worshiping with us.

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He was very young.

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If we don't practice this every day, we won't live in it.

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You have to practice this every day.

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Let's stop there because there's plenty more.

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Let me stop at this sentence. In today's instant gratification

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Christian culture, we have neither the time or the discipline or the strength

01:08:55.300 --> 01:09:00.300
to explore God's favor.

01:09:00.300 --> 01:09:05.300
In today's instant gratification Christian culture, we neither have the time

01:09:05.300 --> 01:09:10.300
nor the discipline nor the strength to explore the favor of God.

01:09:10.300 --> 01:09:15.300
Time is not enough. There is time and discipline.

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And then the strength to hold on to that conviction that has been forged

01:09:20.300 --> 01:09:25.300
in time and discipline and say, this is where I dwell.

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This is what is upon my head. This is the crown on my head, the crown of favor.

01:09:30.300 --> 01:09:35.300
In a world of instant gratification, this isn't happening.

01:09:35.300 --> 01:09:40.300
And therefore then we are like spoiled children who delight or despise

01:09:40.300 --> 01:09:45.300
favor based solely on answered prayer.

01:09:50.300 --> 01:09:55.300
Let's kind of pray.

01:10:00.300 --> 01:10:05.300
How to pray, man.

01:10:10.300 --> 01:10:15.300
You pray quietly and I'll try and figure out how to pray.

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Pray for this favor thing, eh?

01:10:20.300 --> 01:10:25.300
Why is it so hard, Father, to wrap my head around?

01:10:25.300 --> 01:10:30.300
You know,

01:10:30.300 --> 01:10:35.300
when I went to Israel and

01:10:35.300 --> 01:10:40.300
was sitting opposite the garden

01:10:40.300 --> 01:10:45.300
that's supposed to be Gethsemane,

01:10:45.300 --> 01:10:50.300
they point out a tree that was

01:10:50.300 --> 01:10:55.300
a tree that Jesus sat under and then they've taken another tree

01:10:55.300 --> 01:11:00.300
and they've grafted them together so they're intertwined.

01:11:00.300 --> 01:11:05.300
And that's perhaps where Jesus sat in, which may or may not be true.

01:11:05.300 --> 01:11:10.300
But why am I bringing this up?

01:11:10.300 --> 01:11:15.300
Ungraft the intertwining of the trees.

01:11:15.300 --> 01:11:20.300
Ungraft the intertwining of the trees.

01:11:20.300 --> 01:11:25.300
Set circumstances and answered prayer aside.

01:11:25.300 --> 01:11:30.300
If that is the one thing we can do today, let's just start there.

01:11:30.300 --> 01:11:35.300
Father, I unwind. What is intertwined I unwind.

01:11:35.300 --> 01:11:40.300
I separate favor from everything else. I just want to be

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one tree. I don't want things to intertwine. If that is the only thing we can ask the Holy Spirit to do,

01:11:45.300 --> 01:11:50.300
then let that be the only thing we do. Let's start there.

01:11:50.300 --> 01:11:55.300
Separate it from circumstances. Separate it from answered prayer.

01:11:55.300 --> 01:12:00.300
Just sit under the tree of favor.

01:12:10.300 --> 01:12:15.300
Ungraft the intertwining of the trees.

01:12:15.300 --> 01:12:20.300
Ungraft the intertwining of the trees.

01:12:20.300 --> 01:12:25.300
Ungraft the intertwining of the trees.

01:12:25.300 --> 01:12:30.300
Ungraft the intertwining of the trees.

01:12:30.300 --> 01:12:35.300
Ungraft the intertwining of the trees.

01:12:35.300 --> 01:12:40.300
Ungraft the intertwining of the trees.

01:12:40.300 --> 01:12:45.300
Ungraft the intertwining of the trees.

01:12:45.300 --> 01:12:50.300
Ungraft the intertwining of the trees.

01:12:50.300 --> 01:12:55.300
Ungraft the intertwining of the trees.

01:12:55.300 --> 01:13:00.300
Can you bring me to a Christianity, oh God, where

01:13:00.300 --> 01:13:05.300
I'd be satisfied with

01:13:05.300 --> 01:13:10.300
knowing what it is to

01:13:10.300 --> 01:13:15.300
knowing what it is to

01:13:15.300 --> 01:13:20.300
have the favor of the Creator and the King of the Universe upon my life.

01:13:20.300 --> 01:13:25.300
Can I not connect

01:13:25.300 --> 01:13:30.300
my circumstances and my desire to have prayer answered to it.

01:13:30.300 --> 01:13:35.300
and my desire to have prayer answered to it.

01:13:35.300 --> 01:13:40.300
All those songs, the Aaronic blessing,

01:13:40.300 --> 01:13:45.300
All those songs, the Aaronic blessing,

01:13:45.300 --> 01:13:50.300
All those songs, the Aaronic blessing,

01:13:50.300 --> 01:13:55.300
make His countenance and make His face shine upon you.

01:13:55.300 --> 01:14:00.300
It's a face, that's what He meant by favor.

01:14:00.300 --> 01:14:05.300
That is the idea of favor.

01:14:12.300 --> 01:14:17.300
Can you help me find favor?

01:14:17.300 --> 01:14:22.300
It's already upon me, but I lose it.

01:14:22.300 --> 01:14:27.300
I don't know where it is. Can you help me find favor?

01:14:27.300 --> 01:14:32.300
Can you help me grow in it?

01:14:37.300 --> 01:14:42.300
Spirit of God, words can't do this, but life can do this.

01:14:42.300 --> 01:14:47.300
Can you bring life all across this church right now?

01:14:47.300 --> 01:14:52.300
I can't do more than this.

01:14:52.300 --> 01:14:57.300
When we leave here, can we walk away with a constant

01:14:57.300 --> 01:15:02.300
pebble in our shoe called favor?

01:15:02.300 --> 01:15:07.300
Always aware of it, annoyingly, irritatingly aware of it, until it becomes part of our shoe.

01:15:12.300 --> 01:15:17.300
Can you bring back memories of people that favored us?

01:15:17.300 --> 01:15:22.300
Can you bring back memories of people that favored us?

01:15:22.300 --> 01:15:27.300
Can you bring back memories of people that favored us?

01:15:27.300 --> 01:15:32.300
People that we show favor to.

01:15:32.300 --> 01:15:37.300
How our hearts long to show favor, how our hearts were satisfied when favor was shown to us.

01:15:37.300 --> 01:15:42.300
Can you remind us

01:15:42.300 --> 01:15:47.300
of perhaps mothers, fathers, brothers, sisters, friends?

01:15:47.300 --> 01:15:52.300
Can we then superimpose that on you and you'll be a million times better?

01:15:57.300 --> 01:16:02.300
There's a scripture in 1 Peter 5, 7.

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It says, He cares affectionately for you

01:16:07.300 --> 01:16:12.300
and He watches over you carefully.

01:16:12.300 --> 01:16:17.300
You care affectionately for me and You watch over me carefully.

01:16:17.300 --> 01:16:22.300
You care affectionately for me

01:16:22.300 --> 01:16:27.300
and You watch over me carefully.

01:16:32.300 --> 01:16:37.300
Can you help our hearts receive that?

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Jesus, work a miracle in my life, Jesus.

01:16:49.300 --> 01:16:54.300
Jesus, work a miracle in my life, Jesus.

01:16:54.300 --> 01:16:59.300
This is all I need to live here on Earth.

01:17:02.300 --> 01:17:07.300
So I receive, Father, Your love.

01:17:07.300 --> 01:17:12.300
So I receive, Father, Your love. I receive Your affection.

01:17:12.300 --> 01:17:17.300
I exchange things, I exchange condemnation,

01:17:17.300 --> 01:17:22.300
self-hatred, fear,

01:17:22.300 --> 01:17:27.300
failure, repeated failure,

01:17:27.300 --> 01:17:32.300
failure, repeated failure, anxiety.

01:17:32.300 --> 01:17:37.300
I exchange it.

01:17:37.300 --> 01:17:42.300
I throw it away.

01:17:49.300 --> 01:17:54.300
Can you give us each before we leave right now?

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Can you please come to each of us

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and give us a robe of favor as you did Joseph?

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Eat in it, sleep in it, walk in it, laugh in it,

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do it with circumstances in it. Never take it off.

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It's self-cleaning so we don't have to worry.

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So I wrap that around us, Father, as a church right now.

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In Jesus' name, Amen.

01:18:41.300 --> 01:18:46.300
See you guys when I see you. Oops!

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I wrapped it around, it slipped a little.

01:18:51.300 --> 01:18:56.300
The robe of favor.

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Bless you guys.